Parenting has never been easy. And in today’s digital age, it feels like navigating a new world of adaptability. As a mom of two tween daughters, navigating online experiences and what is allowed and not allowed in our home, has not been an easy task. Sometimes it can feel like the rules change faster than families can keep up. That uncertainty creates a lot of guesswork.
I often find myself asking the same questions, or comparing what I allow in my home with my kids’ friends. Is this appropriate? Are the protections meaningful? What information am I missing?

Even engaged parents can struggle to answer those questions consistently. That is why conversations about online safety have become increasingly important. Several different approaches have been proposed to address these concerns. One theme continues to stand out to me: consistency.
Families experience technology as one connected ecosystem. Yet the systems governing that experience are often fragmented. Different platforms operate under different standards, different policies, and different expectations, making it so difficult to understand how protections work from one app to the next and what should be allowed versus what shouldn’t be.
We are not looking for perfection in our house. I am looking to steer my kids in a direction that keeps them safe and where I can transparently receive information as to what their online accessibility looks like. As technology continues to evolve, the goal should be to reduce confusion and help families make informed decisions with confidence.
The App Store Accountability Act offers a consistent framework. Establishing protections at the marketplace level, it creates a single point of accountability and a clearer process for families. Rather than requiring parents to navigate a maze of different systems, it provides a uniform baseline that is easier to understand and apply across the digital ecosystem. And this is exactly what busy moms like me need. This gives parents the control they need over online safety and protects kids by mandating age verification.
If we want technology to provide clarity instead of confusion, we need leaders to support legislation that brings meaningful structural change to the digital ecosystem. Senators Padilla and Schiff have an opportunity to support an approach that emphasizes consistency, transparency, and parental involvement. For the families of California, that means supporting the App Store Accountability Act and helping create a digital environment that is easier for parents to navigate and safer for children to explore.
